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Has been concerned about your blog and enjoy your talent, while improving their own feelings towards the correct understanding. Unexpectedly, today, I will jot to you for help.
After I graduated from seminary in 2004, seasoned the memorable first love. Of course, the outcome is miscarried. I have a very long duration of time to modify, but, for love is to withstand. Later years worked in Beijing fknow next to nothing ofme time, there are generally older women marry later, I do not feel older.
2009, because the family for some reason, I select to return to our home where the prefecture-level city, a affair, the profit still can. In here, I was a typical older woman left. The family has been urging, also introduced a lot of relatives and friends. But because of his previous work environment and contact with people with them are very another, so it is difficult to hit it encountered. The middle of several more satisfactory to me, but at some time or feel too little common language, declined.
I know I grew older, we are here met the right person in the few opportunities, but they do not want to get married and get married, scared of the future that they apologize. Very contradictory. The time now know the boyfriend, his job is to follow the project to go, basically year-round travel, place is not fixed. Age, 2 years younger than me. But I am more satisfied with experience and role. Start time to meet, feel a little love at the outset sight, a tacit accord, that is, he has been looking for other people. He talked to two girlfriends before, the first one is the university, very much in love, but because her parents asked him to buy a house in the city, when he can not afford it divided. Therefore, beginning when he said, he did not house, hope we can struggle together.
The two of us home is rural, not too distant away from the. His family was poor, sick mother, and periodically life can not a standing ovation themselves, did his dad farmed, and later lost a lot of money, bank loans are tens of thousands of dollars last year, he brought back to just pay off. His sister graduated from graduate school, this year has been married. The navel of their home conditions have been bad, sibling and sister school tuition are working with their borrowed, he later graduated slowly disburse off. That is, even now, apart from have a monthly proceeds of over 10,000 go outside his home life in the future we can not give any monetary support.
We are either Pentium III person, marry and have children to buy a house is put on the agenda of things. 51 of the time to see his parents. Decided on the elementary operators. His mother in poor health, may at any time if the disease made a life-threatening. So, he wanted to get married early, so his parents peace of mind presently. These I can understand. In our small city, buy a house down payout also hundreds of thousands less than 200,000. I want to buy a house this year, his wages can get our hands seven or eight million (because of how not to work after New Year, May began to work), I can give him scrape together fifty thousand, to the point when you can pay to borrow down payout. Of course, we will not narrate his parents or my parents for money. Prices have been rising, not a house, then married, woman are insecure. Moreover, this for him, he had no large financial pressure. In our case, with the woman not the man to the house, but also take the initiative to pay the down payment with him, I do not think many people can do. I told him to say buy asset, we had an contention. What he means is that money in his hands at the end of the marriage, so his home earlier peace of mind, buy a house next year by the end of the money to say things. Also said that because my hands out of liquidity, then, it will affect my business. If you do not buy a house, you can poll the money to me, I grew and grew. In addition, his sister said, you can loan us one hundred thousand to buy a house, waiting for her when we buy a house and then support her. But he said his mother now thatcondition, he and his sister had to reside in the hands of money for a rainy day, can not put money on the house, do not want to do so as early as house slaves. Do not want to, when not afford to buy a house.
I am very disappointed. In his idea, first is to wed his mother happy so early, his mother's illness to his father's debt, he paid so much can be made to the two of us own life, he thought they were his family and his himself, he not considered me. What can not afford it? Marry wed Han Chinese wearing for supper, this is mentioning. A man to get married, you must shoulder the duty of the home, wife and children later in life direction, is that he should plan to consider. I arrange before well, not difficult for his family, also posted their own money into the house, I do, is to our future life, I have done erroneous?
I was feeling the majesty of the people Tory Burch Wedges, I can not wait until afterward year to buy a house, I equitable think this let me know his situation in his mind. This kind of marriage, so I am a little hesitant. In truth, he does not how good overall condition, I married him Cheap Tory Burch Sandals, and that did not climb up the meaning. I fair think that two people hit it off, feeling good is the most important. So the other I do not care. I am so righteous, but the results, so let me down. There are a few answer to ask doll:

1 he is not really love me? Such a man can marry it?
2 for the house lost the love of his heart is not there any eclipses?
3 buy a house before marriage, work?
4 I can own for a small apartment, so he has ample money he bought the big house, we each for their own? This will not affect the feeling?
5 is greater than the concessions I made, the fewer oppression on him, the more do not want to presume more responsibility?
6 to buy a house before marriage, is not not to consider the child's problem?

He later has given me an remorse, said the end agreed to buy a house Tory Burch Reva, before he was ill-considered, and so on. I thought very uncomfortable, for he is very indifferent. Because the affective trauma suffered before, so I especially care about each other whether it is devoted to me, whether I am first. But right now, I am a little childish. Hope babe busy while I figure it out, thanks a million!

Rouge

rouge:

Hello.

Some time antecedent reading a book almost the human brain activity by scanning areas of people's sentiment. Inside that, no stuff how about. So you should understand that he may love you, there may be concessions, but you are certainly not his most favored. This is undeniable.

And this thing is very remove, people are opening to understand, and you shout: I am not a house, you are willing to fight with me because as. Plainly, he wanted to buy something before he afford that price, of course, can only be second best, and you're the object of his second best. I think this is understandable, for you, if there are ample financial resources to own a motorcar, catch the bus each day, you would be willing to do? Catch the bus each day, certainly not as driving the motorcar, but it is all cheaper, still better off than wade.

You asked to obtain married first and then buy a house, it is not impossible, put my body, I think that no problem. But having said that, each person's feelings of love and life and the requirements are not the same. Like you so approaches thirty, a child is forthcoming, and the lack of security of a mighty woman, get married first and then whether you buy a house, it is estimated you will be quite hard on their own that an and. So on your personal position, I think the first marriage and then buy a house is not.

He took his mother to use the money ill probably come when this matter beneath the guise of, say want to take the money home and peace of mind for the marrying. This is contradictory, then that he is really willing to pay the money, but do not want to buy it. Next to this person in our outlook, is like marriage, meantime paying as little as feasible to get you, would like to reserve some for yourself, so try to bargain.

But maybe because you insist the cost is not the reason to relax, he saw no wish sale, and admitted to your offer. This does not average anything, not that he is not honest to you, not that he does not love you, only shows that he is not a special kind of person, not a particular person for your sake. Of lesson, it comes 100% whole-hearted love, surely not.

Having said namely, as a person, you adore to 100% of the estimated suspended. Because indeed, apt your condition, expected to be tough to ascertain what you ambition sensibilities. Unless you are willing to bench for additional conditions even aggravate for men, marital men or two alternatively something, otherwise people grab aboard what basis you 100%? At present this man, I saw at conditions too chaste, so I recommend you agreed him, but you must understand that he is not a first for your sake then for the sake of their own men, so you must live in with a point in the scheming.

Now comes the village, I would put it expressly, son preference is very solemn in rural zones, most people do not want to support his daughter, so hard to grow up a man to marry his wife, his wife numerous of which are bought with money, the regular daughter get married is to give the bride price, bride price to the more, the more value it shows her in-laws wife, the wife is better. And such a person in love, you have to conform to their path, not because of his big city floated a few annuals, ran the pursuance of what at the outset sight. It is not for you, but also lead to the status of your marriage is not lofty enough.

Reservation of such a man for you, whether it is based on objective reasons, or subjective reasons, you had to let him real money to pay an surplus quantity of money out of the marriage. Because these people he is not 100% to the heart on your body, but as a resource to you, try to eat cheap, so do not activity the aloof and stuck on. You allow such people to pay many more, he will value you. Only really easy kind of man you speak about feelings, you can talk to him about feelings.

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